With changing times and increased segregation, these non-political Eid parties are a huge welcome. It reflects the multiculturalism of Indian society and gives hope that in spite of efforts to divide, harmony prevails.
By Dr Kouser Fathima
Just received an invite for an Eid party from a friend in her apartment complex. Surprisingly, there are hardly any Muslims in that complex. My brother also attended an Iftaar party in his colleague’s housing complex. He was, it seems, especially invited to add the ethnic touch to the party as all others attending were non-Muslims.
So, now Eid parties are the latest trend in metro cities.
These parties are planned to perfection, from food to decor to dress code and are a big hit in software companies and apartment complexes. Eid delicacies are especially catered by chefs, with mehandi stalls and live qawwali concerts. People enthusiastically attend these parties as it is the time to socialise and relax. Like the Holi or New Year parties, Eid parties are the new happening trend.
Though many may complaint that New Year has been over commercialized, yet one can’t forget that everybody smiles back when wished ‘Happy New year’. Eid parties may eventually get commercialised but the spirit of Eid will always be the same.
Definitely these parties are different from the ones we are used to. (I) have sweet memories of college days when my friends visited my house on Eid days. They would eagerly wait for Eid, some didn’t even need an invite. Had friends who even did Eid shopping for the occasion. Eid lunch was for sure at my place, biryani being the main attraction. My vegetarian friends would love the seviyaan. Good to see the same excitement when my kids invite their friends, although small, but they do enjoy Eid as much as my kids and love their Eid gift.
With changing times and increased segregation, these non-political Eid parties are a huge welcome. It reflects the multiculturalism of Indian society and gives hope that in spite of efforts to divide, harmony prevails.
Non-Muslims celebrating Eid is a new ray of hope. It should be encouraged more and (it) can add to the spirit of sharing by donating to the poor and needy.
Also, not to forget the political and celebrity hosted Eid parties. Reasons may be different, yet they keep Eid and Muslims in limelight, (which) shows Muslims as fun loving and celebrating community.
Waiting to hear Eid Mubarak from all and do enjoy your Eid party.
Eid Mubarak!!
(Dr Kouser Fathima is a writer based in Bangalore. She can be reached at [email protected])